A new branch of behavioural science shows how to 'map'
a person in seconds
For those who know how, a person's facial features can be read
like a book. They reveal the person's strengths and weakness in
much greater detail than you would imagine. For centuries, 'face
readers' have fascinated people with their amazing accuracy. They
rattle off great details about your life, as it has been, your inclinations,
your joys and troubles. Many of them simply don't know how they
do it - the information seems to just come to them as soon as they
look at your face. Practitioners of traditional medicine too often
use this ability to gain insight into people's personality type
and the kind of diseases and ailments that they may be prone to.
Today, Structure-associated Function is a new branch of behavioural
science that teaches you how to decode the hundreds of clues that
are written all over a person's face and features. Perfected by
Daniel Whitside of 3-in-1 Concepts in California, this science co-relates
face and body structures with mental and emotional abilities. Knowledge
of Structure-associated Function enables a person to relate to another
with a deeper understanding, gained rapidly, within seconds of meeting.
Ritu Malhotra, counsellor and specialised trainer, 3-in-1 Concepts,
explains: "With knowledge of Structure- associated Function,
you can make an excellent 'educated guess' about what a person's
behaviour is likely to be, what moves and motivates that person
as well as what that person's probable experience of life has been.
What a boost it is to understanding people."
This kind of knowledge helps in better and powerful communication
and building of rapport. It gives you an opportunity to use the
crucial first 15 seconds to gain insight of the person opposite
you and tailor-fit your approach and communication individually
to him/her.
To see how it works, let's take a look at the face of Rishabh Gidwani
and apply some principles of Structure-associated Function to know
more about him. He has a hooked nose, long, narrow face; straight,
horizontal low set eyebrows, thin upper lip, close-set eyes with
deep lines between his eyebrows. What does this tell us?
Rishabh is materially conscious and can be an excellent financial
consultant. His long, narrow face signifies a cautious and self-conscious
approach. He is a person who appreciates support from others and
is proud of his accomplishments. Details are important to him. He
has a reserved nature with an ability to maintain inner harmony.
He is optimistic, easily approachable and accepting of others. He
has a precise and factual approach towards life; he is efficient
and selective in word and deed. He is punctual and expects excellence
from others. His approach is one of "doing it right and doing
it now." All these insights just by looking at his face! If
an interviewer knew how to use Structure-associated Function, he'd
hire Rishabh on the spot!
With the awareness that Structure-associated Function teaches, communication
becomes an art as well as a science, bringing flair as well as accuracy
to our daily decisions and interactions.
For more details and course information contact Ajna Center
for Learning, Pluto Society, H-4, 1/AB Kalyani Nagar, Pune - 411
014, Phone: 26681231.
Khursheed Dinshaw
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